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Monday, September 13, 2010
Monday, September 6, 2010
Insecurity is a bitch.
It creeps up on you and effs with your head until you end up doing or believing something dumb. It's problematic if not addressed honestly.
Insecurity is also inevitable - it's simply part of the human condition. Anyone who denies dealing with it is either lying to you or themselves, or you and themselves. We all have those moments in time and/or areas within ourselves in which we just can't get it together enough to believe (really believe) we are worthy, or deserving, or good-enough, or acceptable or whatever. But, how do we deal?
Everything about us is imperfect, for sure - but isn't it all in how we deal with those many little (or big) idiosyncrasies that make us human? If so, I choose to fight this battle by reminding myself of what's true - in order to counteract those unproductive myths that foster insecurity. So, here it goes:
The good things that others see in me are probably true.
The bad things that others have expressed about me should be taken in context. Not that they may not be true, but that people with good intentions and truth to share do so with love, not negativity.
I am my own harshest critic and if I must be self-critical about anything, it should be about how I should often be kinder to myself.
It is okay to believe that I deserve really good things, because I do. It is also okay to accept good things into your life without guilt or fear.
Weapon of choice? Speak on it...