Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Are you Him?
This is my new approach to dating. It consists of two elements:
1. Deciding what "Him" should be. Not in a checklist kind of way, but in the sense of knowing what I'm looking for in a partner. How should I feel/What I should learn to accept/What I need to walk away from/etc...
I think I have a pretty good (but fluid) idea of what "Him" might look like. But I'm still getting to know myself as an adult, so this will be an ongoing process.
2. Being willing to ask the question "Are you Him?" without anticipation and/or fear of the answer. This means being open to new and unusual possibilities and also being at peace with closing doors.
This should be easy.